We’ve all heard it before: “you do you” they say, but what if we don’t know who YOU is?
Within a split instant, you’ve already filtered through how “you doing you” will…
…add stress to someone's life
…affect the way others view you
…interrupt someone’s plans
So in that instant, you’ve chosen to appease others all while believing it’s what you want too.
It’s not until you have feelings of regret and resentment that you start to realize what you agreed to isn't really what YOU want to do.
Why?
Because you can’t DO you if you don’t KNOW you.
What we’ve discovered is that “the journey” is YOU. It’s discovering who we are and what we need despite what others expect from us.
When we talk about living a life with more confidence and ease, it all boils down to understanding WHY you do what you do.
So if you…
…commit to things you really don’t want to do, or
…accept treatment that you know you don’t deserve, or
…bend backwards to make sure everyone else is taken care of first,
then we have the tool for you.
The way to find YOU in all the noise is to invest time in knowing your values. Values-Based Decision Making (VDBM) is our go-to tool for learning how to make the best decisions with no regrets and no second-guessing.
We gain confidence knowing our choices are in alignment with our values, so we can express ourselves freely and authentically.
Ready to start living the YOU DO YOU life but don’t know where to start? YOU start here.
With love,
Ming-Wai + Ming-Cee
Wabi Sabi - space for silence, a place for the soul
ming + ming
ming+ming was born from our personal struggles and the path we found through them. In the beginning we felt lost, discouraged, and hesitant to buy something that had no guarantee of even working. We’ve battled with depression, anxiety, denial, self-doubt, and a debilitating fear of the unknown, but now we know it’s all for a bigger purpose.
In the process, Ming-Wai became a certified yoga teacher, meditation coach, and energy worker using tarot, crystals, and Reiki. Ming-Cee joined her sister as both a business partner and a life coach. It’s been a long, winding road and the struggles are still real but after years of inner work, and trying a multitude of tools for personal growth, we're bringing you the process that actually works: the 11 steps to change your life.
