We’ve all heard it before: “you do you” they say, but what if we don’t know who YOU is?
Within a split instant, you’ve already filtered through how “you doing you” will…
…add stress to someone's life
…affect the way others view you
…interrupt someone’s plans
So in that instant, you’ve chosen to appease others all while believing it’s what you want too.
It’s not until you have feelings of regret and resentment that you start to realize what you agreed to isn't really what YOU want to do.
Why?
Because you can’t DO you if you don’t KNOW you.
What we’ve discovered is that “the journey” is YOU. It’s discovering who we are and what we need despite what others expect from us.
When we talk about living a life with more confidence and ease, it all boils down to understanding WHY you do what you do.
So if you…
…commit to things you really don’t want to do, or
…accept treatment that you know you don’t deserve, or
…bend backwards to make sure everyone else is taken care of first,
then we have the tool for you.
The way to find YOU in all the noise is to invest time in knowing your values. Values-Based Decision Making (VDBM) is our go-to tool for learning how to make the best decisions with no regrets and no second-guessing.
We gain confidence knowing our choices are in alignment with our values, so we can express ourselves freely and authentically.
Ready to start living the YOU DO YOU life but don’t know where to start? YOU start here.
With love,
Ming-Wai + Ming-Cee
Feeling overwhelmed and looking for your work-life balance?
A lot of us are looking to find that sweet spot in life, where we've found the balance between our work lives and our home lives. But how do we know when we've gotten there? Is it a feeling? Is it happiness? Maybe a sense of ease?
Many of us have a hard time defining exactly what we're searching for when it comes to the perfect work-life balance. Generally, it’s a feeling that something's off and we know we can't continue on the same path for much longer.
The definition for work-life balance is personal and it can be affected by multiple factors like personalities, responsibilities, timing, and situation. That's why it's important to know which step you're on when discovering your unique work-life balance.
With our 11 step process to transform your life, you'll find a deeper understanding of your stuckness and how it keeps you from getting what you want. You will then discover how to create your own path towards the work-life balance that makes the most sense for you.
If you're sick of...
feeling torn or guilty about how you spend your time between work and your personal life
thinking you're not doing enough compared to others
feeling overwhelmed, or constantly on the edge of burnout, and feeling like you don’t have much to show for it
constantly believing that you’re not good enough
…then you need these steps!
If you would like more guidance on how to apply our 11 steps to discovering your work-life balance, join us for our FREE live q+a session on February 21st at 8pm ET | 5pm PT. During this time, Ming-Wai and Ming-Cee will walk you through understanding how to apply the 11 steps to your own life.
All you have to do is sign up and show up for yourself. We got you. You got you. See you there!
PS: if you missed our monthly lifestyle newsletter with easy tools on how to discover your work-life balance, check it out here.
